This was the original post on reddit:
“AITA for wanting to sell my wife’s fetish to fund my own vice?
Me (25m) and my wife (24f) have been together for 6 years, married for 4. We have a very strong and committed relationship based on trust and communication. Admittedly I am not the best in bed, which is due to both a mental lockup and an unfortunate genetic handmedown, but I make up for it in many other ways and for all intents and purposes we do have a happy and successful marriage. That said, my wife is far more creative sexually, and even before we married she was into a size kink, i.e. she would look at pictures of huge (fake) penises, watch bbc porn, purchase large dildos, etc. I was always happy to play along in the bedroom, since my own endowment is subpar at best, and I believe everyone should explore sexuality in their own way and work with each other to find mutual pleasure. When we have sex, she always makes sure I’m well taken care of, and I don’t mind returning the favor through whatever means is necessary.
As for me, I’m into psychadelics and other mind-expanding drugs like psilocybin, mescaline, salvia, so on, a hobby that my wife will turn the other way for since she isn’t really into that sort of thing, though it’s never been an issue and she doesn’t disapprove. Every year since college, I take a trip with friends to Arizona and we spend a week getting to know the universe *wink*. My wife is fully on board with this annual trip.
Since we got married, my wife and I have taken an annual trip to Las Vegas as well. We’re not big into gambling or anything, but we like to party and people watch and catch some shows. To make things easier logistically, after our week in Vegas is over, I always take short flight to Arizona and meet up with my friends for our adventure, and my wife flies home.
Our second year in Vegas we went to an erotic show. It was one of the ones with both male and female performers, nothing physical but a lot of nudity – breasts, penises, etc. One black performer notably had a massive penis, which I made some joke about to my wife about her taking it (I can’t remember exactly what I said because I was somewhat intoxicated) and to which she laughed and the show went on. We ended up at the same hotel bar as the performers, and I ended up speaking with the guy. Long story short he works as a high-end male escort, biweekly health examinations, professional service, etc., and he came back with us to our hotel and the three of us had sex (strictly heterosexual stuff). I have no problem with this, as it was an enjoyable experience for my wife and I myself enjoy a bit of sph. He never charged us anything, saying it was nice to be with a couple who was genuine and not an old, overweight lady coming off a divorce (his words).
Every year since then we’ve reached out to him when we go to Vegas and one night of the week he’ll come to our hotel and have sex with my wife, and we only pay for drinks before/after. This is not the issue at hand, as I have no problem with this arrangement. The way I see it, it’s my wife’s one chance a year to really let go of her responsibilities and embrace her fetish, the same way I do when I go on the substance excursions with my college buddies. Here’s where the issue is. Our substances of choice have started to become quite expensive, as well as our lodgings since my friends and I are opting for comfort these days as we get older. Whereas we used to be fine renting some tents and hoofing it, we lean more towards isolated cabins and such these past few trips.
As such, I suggested to my wife that we film her fun with the large penis so that she could watch it at any point on her own and so that I could use it to fund my own fun. Of course I wouldn’t show her face or give away our identities, it would be completely anonymous and knowing that there’s a market for such things we could easily make a good amount of money, a win – win in my book. Long story short, she flipped out and called me an asshole. She didn’t mind the filming (since that could benefit her), but absolutely forbade me from sharing it with anyone else. The thing is, no one would ever know it was her, and by selling her hookup with the well endowed gentleman, I could at the same time fund my trip with my friends. It’s an even deal in my book, so what gives? Am I the asshole here or is my wife wanting to have her cake and eat it too?”
After reading this several months back, I had to try to get in touch with this dude and see what was up with the video. I sent him a private message and it went unanswered, so I figured it was a throwaway account and that was that. Lo and behold, seven months later he replies!
“Hey sorry for the late reply, this account is connected to an email address I rarely check so I didn’t even see your message. She eventually agreed to let me sell the video, but I had no luck with buyers and my posts kept getting removed so I gave up. Yes, we are still together, happily married. I just have the one video from that one time, and if you’re still interested I’ll sell it for $***. You can email me directly at **************@gmail.com and I’ll get back to you asap. Thanks for reaching out.”
Well, your favorite collector pulled through and landed this daunting look into the life of a young wife absolutely addicted to big black dick for you all to enjoy! You’re welcome!

